Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Cultural Shock in Peru!
Incident number 1: Half day visit to Arica, Chile
At the beginning of December both Simon and Roberta had to leave Peru in order to renew their Visas. We decided on a half day trip to Arica which is about 45 minutes away from Tacna. Two of the Peruvian team members decided they would like to join us for this journey. As we approached the border we could sense the excitement increasing to a level that was clearly almost incontrollable.
The day proved to be quite relaxing and we were able to enjoy a number of treats in Arica as well as the luxury of walking around and just people watching. As we walked around and crossed roads our two Peruvian members were amazed that cars actually stopped at zebra crossings to allow pedestrians to cross. at one point as a car pulled up to the crossing and stopped they were unwilling to cross the road until the car had passed. It was only after hand signals from the driver that they realised their lives were not in danger. Later on as they got to grip with things and crossed at a zebra crossing while a police car waited for us to cross someone commented "wow this is amazing, even the police obey the zebra crossing!" The shock of this was compounded by the fact that other motorists didn't toot their horns violently one mili second before the traffic lights changed. Personally being in Arica made me realise that I would have to adjust some of my "Peruvian driving techniques"!
Incident Number 2: Thunder Storms in Puno
Last week I was able to join the team as they made a trip to the mountains to help distribute presents to Sunday School kids. The trip proved to be interesting for a number of reasons, none moreso than watching the effect of the 5200 metre altitude on some of the team members. Fortunately everyone enjoyed the experience and although there was great joy in watching the children recieve their presents I imagine that the smile on the Peruvian team members faces when they saw the rain and hail that accompanied the thunderstorm was equal to the smile of joy from the children! On our first night in Puno we sat in a small cafe finishing off our dinner as we began to hear the pounding on the roof. In any regard the storm was impressive but as Simon, Roberta and I watched the first drops of rain we had seen for many months the rest of the team rain onto the street and danced with joy at having being able to watch their first real thunderstorm and to top it all off it wasn't just rain, it was hail! Coming from Northern Ireland I guess there are some things you just take for granted!
Saturday, October 25, 2008
A Week in the life of the Murphys
Like most Sunday mornings we managed to get up and out for a walk along the seafront with the kids before coffee time and then church. We then headed up to La Pampa for church at 11am.
We arrived back home from church and I (Dave) managed to shovel my dinner down before heading out to Ite to oversee the Mision Rescate Team as they took responsibility for Sunday School. Following Sunday School the team also took the evening service. Both services were encouraging and over 50 children turned up for Sunday School.
After this I left the team back at the Camp Centre and had a short meeting with them before driving home and jumping into bed. As I arrived home I found Alicia just as tired as me after looking after the kids all afternoon as well as entertaining a couple of unexpected visitors (Since Joel's birth Alicia has not really been able to attend the Sunday evening services as it is over too late and does not suit feeding times or bed times for the kids).
Monday 20th October
Monday always seems to be a rush to get ready and it always seems to be the day that Sarah is in the least of a rush! We manage to get her up and dressed into her full uniform of blazer and skirt, fed and off to school by 8.30am. Alicia headed off to the market to get some groceries and I headed out to take the dog a brisk walk before our customary prayer meeting with the Morrows. After the meeting which normally takes most of the morning Alicia started preparing some lunch while I headed into the town to get some supplies for the Mision Rescate Team arriving back home just in time to collect Sarah from school at 1pm.
After lunch Alicia and I, with the kids head out to Ite to catch up with the team and see how they are getting on with their preparations for meetings. We spent most of the afternoon in Ite and arrive home in time to get a late tea and get the kids ready for bed.
Tuesday 21st October
Today starts like most other days and I manage to give the dog a good long walk before coming back and putting the finishing touches to the Bible Study I had prepared for Ite. Most Tuesdays I head out to Ite mid afternoon so that I can spend time with the Team before the meeting and also try and visit in the village just before the meeting starts to remind people.
This week it is refreshing as although I had to share the Team take responsibility for leading and for the music and so I just share and lead the prayer time. After the meeting I leave the team back at the centre de-brief with them and then head home to Alicia to see how her afternoon has been with the kids.
Wednesday 22nd October
Wednesdays have proved to be the most hectic days because in October I have been leaving the house at 8am, this has left Alicia with Joel and preparing Sarah for school alone. Each Wednesday I have collected Pastor Mario from the Ilo church and taken him to Ite to teach the team on evangelism, while another believer from the church; Freddy has been teaching some Spanish. During these lessons I have tried to use the time to catch up on paperwork and my general planning.
I arrived home from this in time for a late lunch and then a relatively free afternoon. Since alot of my time out is in the afternoon and the evening I try to set aside at least one afternoon a week to spend with the kids. Today we went out onto the grass at the seafront and flew Sarah's new kite. We enjoyed a great afternoon before heading back home, getting tea ready and the children bathed and off to bed.
Thursday 23rd October
Each Thursday everyone involved in the ministry at the camp centre meet for a time of planning, sharing and prayer. While I head out to this Alicia stays at home with Joel and has a Spanish conversation class with a lady from Ilo.
I arrive back mid afternoon and enjoy my lunch before preparing something for the youth meeting on Friday night.
Friday 24th October
Today is the big day. I have planned to do my driving test. Since arriving in Peru I have been using an international licence but decided it was time to get a Peruvian one. I had passed the medical, psychological and psychosimatic test a few weeks earlier and the theory test the previous week. Everything seemed a bit strange and didnt really relate to driving for example in one test I had to name 4 large cities, 4 types of fish and know at what time of the day my shadow would be the shortest (I didn't tell them I was from Northern Ireland and so we don't have shadows!) Last Friday afternoon I had attempted the driving test which involved a grand total of two parking manouevres in a large car park, I failed. The first manouevre was parallel parking into a space 1 metre longer than the length of the car and the second was to reverse park the car (diagonally) for a starting position of a right angle from the space. The area you must fit into is 2m 20cm; 40 cm wider than the car (not including the mirrors)in three moves with the second move being the edge forward 1m, it was on this that I failed the previous week.
After making a longer than expected visit to the travel agent to price flights home for our deputation I headed out with my friend Freddy to practice parking. After some practice and a quick lunch I head up to the testing area for the 2.30 start time. After waiting an hour the examiners arrive. I was one of six candidates for the test and after the first manouevre the group is reduced to myself and one other. Eventually we come to the second manouevre and this time the practice has paid off, I get the test and my friend reminds me it is one more step towards being Peruvian. I don't really care about that, I am just relieved to have passed what seemed like the strangest driving test I have ever seen. Not once did we drive in traffic and we barely drove in forward gears!
As I drew sighed with relief I rushed home to collect my stuff before heading out to the young peoples meeting in Ite. I quickly greet and say goodbye to Alicia, Joel and Sarah. I have hardly seen them all day and Joel has been a little off form with his teeth coming through, I feel bad for abandoning them but head off. We have a good meeting with the young people, they are given an open time to ask questions about God and I try to answer some of their deep questions. Many of them seem to be searching. After the meeting we stand around and have a chat before I once again head back home.
Saturday 25th October
Today we get to relax a little. After get ourselves together Alicia heads out to the market with Sarah while I mind Joel. We enjoy coffee and preparing some meat for a BBQ at lunch time. The temperature is 25 degrees so we enjoy a good bit of the afternoon after our BBQ on the patio roof. Later on we head out to the grass to fly Sarah's kite once again. As Joel sits in his pram his sits fascinated with the colours of the kite. We head back in again in time for a pancake tea and get the kids ready for bed.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
A Princess, A Spring Party, an Athletics Coach and a Bug!
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Some Photos
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Paperwork, Paperwork and more Paperwork!
Friday, July 4, 2008
Give thanks to the Lord for He is Good
I think the video footage that we have added just demonstrates how well Sarah has adjusted to life here and it also shows how perhaps she is being exposed to things that she would not have been exposed to at home, things that will ultimately make her a more confident person. God is really good. Now I wonder if we can really trust Him and leave all our worries with Him. How often do we fail Him by worying about the things that He has already taken care of.
Friday, June 13, 2008
Chaos in Ilo
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Ilo Welcomes Joel Murphy
I don't want to write outside my remit but the labour itself was a much better labour than her labour with Sarah, only keeping us waiting for 8 hours compared to 42 the last time! Joel was born at 10.40am, and and declared healthy and normal. Initially we were of the belief that he weighed in just under 10lbs but after recieving the official papers and doing the caculations from Kilos to Pounds we discovered that he was indeed a very big boy; 4.695Kg or roughly 10lbs 5oz!
Since everything was normal and Joel was born before midday on Sunday he and Alicia were allowed home by 10am the next morning.
Sarah seems to have really taken to Joel and was so excited that she was going to visit him in hospital that she was virtually speechless. Since he has been home Sarah has been watching his every move and never wants to go out of his sight in case she misses something. One thing she told her dad was that she is looking forward to playing football with Joel, although she is more of the belief that that will be sooner rather than later. On the note of football I can confirm that Joel knows his football and is already a staunch Liverpool FC supporter, please don't try to lead him astray with any poor imatations from London or Manchester!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Mother's Day Performance Part 2
Instructions for viewing: If you click on play button and then press pause, meanwhile the video will be uploading (you can view progess on the timeline) once the video has uploaded press play and you will be able to watch it without any cuts or breaks in the play)
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Pre-School Education Week
On our last blog post we shared some video (we hope to post the second part of the video soon) from Sarah's Birthday Party and Mothers' Day Presentations. In Peru you never have to wait too long for a reason to celebrate something. This week it is pre-school education week in Peru. At home this would possibly not mean very much but here in Peru it is taken quite seriously. All week there have been activities in the school and other events throughout the town. Yesterday there was a parade of all the pre-school children from the pre-schools through the town centre. Interestingly Sarah's school was one of the few pre-schools not to participate in this event; they had planned a week full of their own events. The program for her school was as follows:
- Monday a drawing competition for the school.
- Tuesday a singing competition.
- Wednesday a dancing competition.
- Thursday a visit to the Collosium to see the opening ceremony of the Junior Olympics.
- Friday a party to celebrate the end of Pre-school Education Week.
It is hard to know how Sarah got on in the drawing competition and how she will enjoy the Olympics tomorrow but she certainly threw herself into the singing. She was torn between singing Jesus Loves Me, Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star or I Love You, You Love Me (Barney and Friends) Eventually she decided she would sing in Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star. Her teacher was impressed that she stood up in front of all the pre-school 3 year olds, 4 year olds and 5 year olds, and of course we were very proud that she rose to the occasion.
Initially we did not recognise the emphasis that other parents would put on their children doing well in all the competitions, however after one of the parents asked us if Sarah would team up with her son for the dancing competition we soon realised how important it was to the parents. Josue came to practise a traditional Peruvian dance with Sarah three times before the real thing. Although the performance was purely an in-school event and we were not allowed to be there we were informed that she performed well, although later she did confess to us " I did the circles too fast!" (News just in: Sarah and her partner won the dance competition - fancy that, a girl from Ballymena winning a dance competition in Peru!)
I must admit that I don't ever remember having as much activity or as much fun at school as Sarah seems to be having, it would almost make me want to go through it all again! On a more serious note all the activity and excitment has been a very good way for us to get to know her teachers and other parents much better. We trust and pray that through Sarah and the people that she brings us in contact with that we will have more opportunities to share Christ with them.
The festivities really don't stop here in Peru, and this weekend is Ilo day (-think American Independence Day and St Patricks Day combined and you are beginning to imagine the scale of things!). Festivities for that will likely start this Friday and run right through the weekend. We have been told that it is virtually impossible to sleep (we need to get used to that again anyhow with the impending arrival of Murphy junior number two!) as there are constant fireworks and bangers throughout the weekend. No doubt Sarah and her classmates will have been practising something to present for Ilo Day! Oh and then of course Father's Day is just around the corner! I guess one thing is for sure - you will never get bored here!
Don't forget to check our blog again soon for the second part of the video from Sarah's Mother's Day performance!
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Video Footage of Sarah
In order to view the attached video footage doubl click on the blue area above. This will take you to the photobucket website where you will once again see the same image in a smaller version. Double click again and then it should begin streaming. When the video starts streaming put the player on pause until streaming has finished and the video should play smoothly.
Unfortunately we have not been able to upload both performances onto this one post so in a week I will upload the second half - Los Ratoncitos (The Little Mice)
Sarah's Busy Weekend
Saturday past was Sarah's third birthday. We had been planning to keep things pretty low profile this year after our experience of having a party in school last year. Considering her birthday fell on a Saturday we thought it would work fine and we would not get any pressure from teachers to have a party in school - we had not accounted for Sarah though! About a week and a half before her birthday Sarah told us she was going to have a big party in school just like last year so we quickly got on with the plans!
Our weekend began with a party (which of course we had to be present at) on Friday in school. There was the traditdional handing over of presents, food, music and dancing. Sarah was so excited by the whole event at times we thought we were going to have to calm her down! In the afternoon she was so excited it was difficult to get her settled for her afternoon nap.
On Saturday morning Sarah got up and was allowed to open her presents. She had already received her bicyclce from her aunts and granny and granda and was almost knocked off her feet when she walked into her playroom to see the Winnie the Pooh stickers which her grandma and grandpa had bought stuck to the wall. What a surprise! Mummy and Daddy had obviously been up late the previous night sticking the wall stickers on. After breakfast we started to prepare for another party. Trevor, Christine, Rebecca and Andrew had been invited for a small party with more music, cake and lots of excitement.
As Sunday was Mother's Day in Peru all the kids in the school had been practising for a special event for Mothers on the Saturday afternoon. Sarah was taking part in two pieces (see above video), one she was required to wear traditional Peruvian custume and do a traditional dance and the second piece which lasted a total of nine minutes involved her dressing up with her classmates as naughty mice! She marched, danced, walked, jumped and ran for the whole time and then if that was not enough she danced to all the pieces by the other children in the older class too. Needless to say she slept really well on Saturday night.
With Sunday being Mother's Day the weekend would not have been complete without another event. The church in Ite decided to put on a special event to celebrate Mother's Day, although it was a little more tame it certainly finished off a very busy weekend for Sarah.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Looking back on April
It was never the intention of the blog to give detailed reports of the work that we are involved in here in Peru but we do like to give you an insight into some of the situations that we encounter and some of the things that God is doing here in Ilo/Ite. As many of you are aware, while the Morrows were on furlough we took responsibility for a number of areas of the work here, including overseeing the small church in Ite and overseeing camps and the Year Team (Mision Rescate. At the beggining of April the Morrows were back from furlough and able to step back into the work. Since then we have tried to divide up the work in a manner that is a little bit more manageable. This has been a very encouraging time for us being able to work very closely alongside another missionary family and share the work load.
In early April my (Dave's) parents paid a three week visit which was really appreciated. It was so nice to be able to spend some time with family and share the country, people and work that we are passionate about with them. It was also a good time for them as they were able to see the overall work and get a better idea of the things that we and the mission are involved in here in the South of Peru. We were also very pleased at how well Sarah took to here grandparents who she had not seen for over a year. She had a blast! It was important for her grandparents to see her going to school and how content she is here in her surroundings. With every visit from home it is nice to get time to relax as well and we really enjoyed the few days that we spent in Arequipa with mum and dad.
Although the time in Lima was very busy it was thoroughly enjoyable and although many people see Lima as an undesireable large city (like most large cities), for two missionaries living in the small port of Lima it was like letting a child loose in a sweet shop! It is always exciting to be able to find small things like Heinz Ketchup, Museli or other eatables.
It was always our intention after having left language school and moving to Ilo to find a language tutor who could help us with conversation and reinforcement of ideas and rules however with one thing and another this never seemed to work out but just this last week steps have been taken to pursue this once again. It seems that in the next couple of weeks we will be starting to work with a tutor. We trust that this will help us to make big strides in bettering our ability to communicate and eradicating any bad habits that we have formed. Please pray for this.
One of the difficulties of being in Peru is certainly the seperation from family and friends, this has become all the more clear to us over the last number of weeks as my grandfather has taken seriously ill. As other family members give updates on his condition in the hospital the distance is certainly felt. Please pray for my the doctors and my family as they try to make my grandfather as comfortable as possible.
Again we really do thank you for your interest in us, and in the work here in Peru, your prayers are very much valued and appreciated. At times the work here can be lonely but we are regularly reminded that we are not alone in the work as we have some many people walking alongside us in prayer and above all we have a God who promised never to leave us or forsake us. Praise the Lord for His faithfullness and thank you for playing such a large part in the ministry here.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
March Update
In March my (Dave’s) preaching responsibilities seem to have been quite a bit more frequent. It has really been good to preach in Spanish although at times it has made me feel slightly restricted both in what I can say and in the deliverance of what I say. On the other hand each time I have preached or spoken I have had a great sense of the Lord empowering me. Needless to say a 30 minute sermon takes many hours preparation and then the actual deliverance of it consumes practically all my energy to the point of near exhaustion; however it is in these times where I have been able to see God working through my weaknesses.
Since the Morrows left for furlough and we have taken more responsibility for the church in Ite, we have got to know some of the regular participants in the services much better which has been a real blessing to us. On a more negative note however, numbers throughout the summer period have really dwindled as a result of holidays and community sports events. We really would appreciate your prayers for this as we have tried to reach out in a number of ways including having a number of open air events in the main Plaza of the village. Interest in these events have been good but there seems to be something stopping people from making the transition from these events to our regular services.
As the school holidays have come to an end, the intensity of camps has eased off. The camp centre will not be used quite as much over the coming weeks although we do anticipate a number of other camps in the coming months, some which may just last over the weekend and others that will be during holidays or conferences for Pastors, leaders etc.
We have continued to oversee the Mision Rescate team that is based at the camp centre and have been ministering in various church in Ite, Ilo, Moquegua, Puno and Tacna over the past year. It has been very encouraging to be involved with these young people who have set this year aside to serve the Lord. One of the greatest encouragements has been to see each of them develop in confidence and in their faith.
Closer to home in Ilo, things are going well. Alicia is now into her seventh month of pregnancy and everything is going well. We have been very impressed so far with the standard of medical care that Alicia has been getting.
Sarah has settled in really well to her new nursery which we are very pleased about. Each day she enthusiastically tells us about the songs she sang, the little dances she learnt or the painting she coloured. Today she brought home her very first homework which was a bit of a shock for a 2 year old to have homework, but no doubt over the coming months and years we will learn lots of cultural and language things through Sarah!
Saturday, February 16, 2008
The month has been a good month in many ways as it has enabled us to really find our feet in the ministry here. At times we have really been stretched, particularly with regards to language but also in other areas too, however we have also had some very encouraging and reassuring moments.
Some of the challenges over the last month have included the Morrow’s car (which we were using) breaking down a few days after they left and being with the mechanic for almost a month. This stretched us in quite a lot of ways, trying to manage without this vehicle but I also gave me some extra mechanical vocabulary! The incident also gave us another insight into some of the frustrations of life here (that is if you can’t see the funny side of things!) I initially took the car to a welder to fix a part of the car, he was unable to fix it but in the process he damaged a cable to the car computer which resulted in the car breaking down half way between Ilo and Ite. I ended up getting the car towed to Ilo where a mechanic looked at it. After a number of hours standing in the hot sun he told us we needed to tow the car to an electrical engineer as it was an electrical fault. We towed it to the electrical engineer and after looking at the car for over 4 hours he informed me that he believed there was a fault with a cable behind the engine but he could not take it out because it was in a difficult place, therefore we had to go to a mechanic so that he could remove the engine in order to get the cable! We eventually got the mechanic and he informed us that he could manage the electrical side of things. On removing the cable we discovered it was faulty and spent the next three weeks trying to find a new cable, we tried practically everywhere in Peru and phone calls we also made to Arica, Chile in order to see if they had the part, it was beginning to look like we were going to have to place an order to the USA when we found a place in Lima with the parts! To cut a long story short the car is back on the road again but the electrical fault left the radio not working – I think I will just avoid trying to fix that!!!
Another more difficult incident here in Ilo was the hospitalisation and then return home of Sam Colville, one of the Gap Year students. After having Sam here for five months and seeing his involvement in the team and the work it was difficult to see him leave and probably even more difficult for the rest of the team.
The Camps that we have had so far have not been as well attended as we initially anticipated, however this has allowed for time to make necessary adjustments to the programme and has also allowed for much more personal interaction with the campers. The Mision Rescate team have been excellent in their handling of the camps and seem to have really enjoyed this. Tomorrow starts another Youth Camp and so the coming week will be busy for all.
The week after the Youth Camp, Mision Rescate, ourselves and Milagros will be involved in holiday Bibles clubs. There will be a team in Ite and a team in Moquegua working on these.
Ite has itself produced some highlights and some lowlights over the last month. It seems that throughout the summer the church services are going to be competing against summer sports events in the village and as a result our numbers have been low of late. On a more encouraging note we have had quite a few new people coming to worship with us and a number of people who had not been for some time coming back again.
In the village there are many problems, two weeks ago a man murdered his wife as a result of a heated row they had, then this past weekend Ite was the victim of a large
On a personal note we are doing really well. Alicia is growing bigger by the day. She had a scan this week and got a little shock when the scan brought the due date three weeks forward to mid-May instead of the start of June. But the important thing is that the baby seems to be developing well and Alicia is keeping well.
Sarah is really doing well at her nursery. Just this morning we were at a party prepared by the teachers and pupils to be presented to parents. It was wonderful just to see Sarah mixing so well with her friends and teachers and the confidence she has developed even over this last month. Sadly she will now have a three week break from nursery before the new season starts but we are so pleased that she is happy in her nursery and has settled so well.
Saturday, January 19, 2008
Camps Begin
Since the New Year time really has flown by rapidly. On Saturday 5th January the first camp started at Baptist Centre – Valle Azul. Although the week of camp proved to be quite tiring it was highly profitable as many of the young campers who attended were encouraged in their faith and a few made commitments to follow Jesus as their Saviour for the very first time. It is in these times that we are reminded that this is what serving as a missionary is all about – seeing lives transformed for God.
We really would appreciate your prayers over the few months as we try to be faithful in serving the Lord with what we have been given. As we take on these new responsibilities we are encouraged by seven words from Psalm 29:11 “The Lord gives strength to his people.”
Finally we just want to apologise to any of you who may have received some junk mail from us earlier in the week. We are not sure what happened but are suspecting that someone hacked our email. We have now increased security and have not experienced any problems since. As a result of our problem with our email we lost all our email addresses. We were able to retrieve some addresses which we had written down in various places, however if you regularly receive our prayer letters (or emails from us) and would wish to continue doing so please send us an email expressing your desire to do this so that we can store your email address once again. Once again we apologise for any inconvenience this may have caused to you. After looking into the problem it seems it is not something that is a threat to others.
As always we want to thank you for your love, prayers and support. You have been such an encouragement to us as a family. We would also like to say a huge thank you to everyone who remembered us in anyway over the Christmas period, be it in prayer, through an email or phone call or by card or parcel.
May God Bless you all.